LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Recently I've discovered many things about life and love. These things are things that will make my pathway and discovery of life less bumpy, and they may not apply to anybody else, but they have made perfect sense to me.

No one is ever "meant to be".

If people were just meant to be, then divorces, and break-ups and heartache would not happen. Being with someone completely lies within yourself and how much effort you're willing to put into that relationship. How much of your heart you're willing to give to that other person, and whether your willing to give up your pride and selfishness to make somebody else happy. Faith and hope are also things that we need. We must hope that things will work out, and we must have faith that everything will work out with all the effort we're putting into the happiness of the life you wish to live with your significant other. If we were just meant to be, we wouldn't have to try anything. This is what makes love so beautiful. Seeing somebody give every part of their being, and sacrifice so many other things, all for your happiness! There is nothing better than that.

A relationship only works based on your effort.

There are Many Roads.

Sometimes we are so caught up with ourselves that we think the way we are doing things is the right way. There are many many many roads. We all end up in the same place. Every one of us, but in order for us to be able to get through life, we have to go on our own road. Every religion has this idea that there is something bigger than any of us, protecting, guiding,  and comforting us. We all carry hope in our own Gods, and all these Gods are taking us to the same place, all these Gods are protecting and guiding us, and most of all comforting us. Every single one of these guides want us to be happy. They want us to find joy in life. But we all discover these things in different places, in different roads. And that is fine! Not a single person is alike, so every single road will be different. There IS one great big plan! But, we've been given the ability to choose how to get to the end/beginning of it.

In the words of Mr. Trevor Hall:

There are many roads and many paths that lead to you, some say their false but I believe all of them are true.